24 June, 2011

Not the most hated mother on the planet!

I've managed to escape being 'hated' by Chickie this week. You see, a month or so back, he'd brought home two notes from school. One for swimming and one for dancesport. I merrily signed both and sent in the required cash and thought all was good. Oh boy was I wrong!

A couple of weeks ago, I picked him up from school and he had an absolutely thunderous face. He took one look at me and said "I hate you* - you made me go to dance. I had to dance with GIRLS!". Turns out, the dancesport note wasn't compulsory - just an 'if you're interested' type of thing. Silly me didn't realise that, and had condemned my long suffering 9 year old boy to dancing with a girl. For four weeks...

Last week was the same - he hated me again and not only did he have to dance with all the girls, but he had to hold their hands (oh, the horror!).


This week I was pleasantly suprised to find he liked dancesport. Turned out that, this week, they were taught how to moonwalk. Not only did he enjoy himself but he and a friend discussed how cool they were for being able to get the idea of how to do it, when their teacher told them it took her several months to perfect it herself. All the while I was trying very very hard to keep a straight face.

I heaved a huge sigh of relief though. It was nice not to be the most hated mother this week.


* I know some people have an issue with their kids telling them they hate them. I don't personally, as I feel it's just a way of Chickie dealing with his emotions. I see it as a learning curve and sometime will tell him that it's a way of knowing I'm doing my job as a mother and not giving in to everything he wants. Other times I'll tell him that I might dislike his behaviour but never him. He normally calms down soon after then comes and apologises for saying it anyway.

6 comments:

Zazzy said...

Oh what a mean mommie! I love it and I love that he's coming to enjoy something that he was sure he would hate. I don't advocating forcing kids into activities but on the other hand, if they don't try different things how will they know what they might enjoy?

Melinda said...

I go from most loved, to most hated all the time. Helps me know I'm doing my job. My ten year old would have said the same thing. Girls. Ewwwww!

The Phosgene Kid said...

I had to take Folk dancing in Gym with other dudes, now that was a horror show...

velcro said...

At least he kept going. I sent the FB to yoga classes at school because I thought that it would help his core stomach muscles. He hated them and stopped going, but didn't bother to tell me that.

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